Parenting is about relationship.
Relationships are about emotions. Emotions are about banking. Every
child has an invisible emotional bank account with their parents. Many
parent/child bank accounts are overdrawn and at a zero balance.
Parents are responsible for making daily deposits that increases their child's emotional frequency. Daily deposits from parents allow children to increase energy to be productive. Illegal withdrawals decreases your child's energy to perform at their best for the day, the week, the month, and the year.
Parents making withdrawals from their children's emotional bank account without making a deposit are in debt to their children. This style of parenting put the child in control and turn the parent into the child's emotional slave. Parents who are in debt to their children emotionally will pay a higher price for their peace of mind.
All children are constantly moving visually toward a high or low emotional frequency. Love is the highest form of communication with your child. Fear is the lowest form of communication with your child.
Some fear based emotional behaviors include; irresponsible, blaming others, rejecting knowledge, know it all, argumentative. entitlement syndrome, lack of gratitude, out of control.
Some love based emotional behaviors include;sharing, gratitude, forgiving, diligence, humble, compassionate, patience, full of wisdom.
Emotions operate in four dimensions; depth, length, width, and height. Questions to ponder regarding fear based emotions are; How deep is this fear? How long will you hold this fear? How far will you go with this fear? How high will my fear go?
Questions to ponder regarding love based emotions are; How deep is your love for your child? Can discipline your child with a love that surpasses your understanding? How many hours can you commit to get absolute knowledge for elevating your child's emotional frequency? Who will you seek out to raise your personal emotional frequency?
There are many ways parents can coach their children to a higher emotional frequency. Please take some time to review the list below:
1. Raise Personal Self-Esteem
A parent's self-esteem is the mirror for their emotional level. A child's behavior is the parents' report card exposing what was transferred during their relationship.
Resource Book: "Building Your Child's Self-Esteem"
2. Operate in Emotional Wealth
Reject any emotions that cater to your fear about your child's behavior or your potential to be an effective parent. Welcome a sound and peaceful mind. Do everything in your power to maintain emotional wealth. Refuse to be a victim to situation, people and things.
Resource E-Book: "Understanding Your Child's Emotional Language"
3. Practice Gratitude in the Home
Say "Thank You" to your child every time they add value to you and others. Pay more attention only to the behaviors you would like to see your child duplicate. Give less attention or no attention to the behaviors that pushes your button.
Resource E-Book: "Effective Communication Skills for Parents"
4. Volunteer With Your Child
Volunteering is the quickest way for adding value to your child. Preparing meals for the poor, caring for seniors, collected food and clothing for the homeless are opportunities awaiting your family so as to raise your emotional frequency.
Parents are responsible for making daily deposits that increases their child's emotional frequency. Daily deposits from parents allow children to increase energy to be productive. Illegal withdrawals decreases your child's energy to perform at their best for the day, the week, the month, and the year.
Parents making withdrawals from their children's emotional bank account without making a deposit are in debt to their children. This style of parenting put the child in control and turn the parent into the child's emotional slave. Parents who are in debt to their children emotionally will pay a higher price for their peace of mind.
All children are constantly moving visually toward a high or low emotional frequency. Love is the highest form of communication with your child. Fear is the lowest form of communication with your child.
Some fear based emotional behaviors include; irresponsible, blaming others, rejecting knowledge, know it all, argumentative. entitlement syndrome, lack of gratitude, out of control.
Some love based emotional behaviors include;sharing, gratitude, forgiving, diligence, humble, compassionate, patience, full of wisdom.
Emotions operate in four dimensions; depth, length, width, and height. Questions to ponder regarding fear based emotions are; How deep is this fear? How long will you hold this fear? How far will you go with this fear? How high will my fear go?
Questions to ponder regarding love based emotions are; How deep is your love for your child? Can discipline your child with a love that surpasses your understanding? How many hours can you commit to get absolute knowledge for elevating your child's emotional frequency? Who will you seek out to raise your personal emotional frequency?
There are many ways parents can coach their children to a higher emotional frequency. Please take some time to review the list below:
1. Raise Personal Self-Esteem
A parent's self-esteem is the mirror for their emotional level. A child's behavior is the parents' report card exposing what was transferred during their relationship.
Resource Book: "Building Your Child's Self-Esteem"
2. Operate in Emotional Wealth
Reject any emotions that cater to your fear about your child's behavior or your potential to be an effective parent. Welcome a sound and peaceful mind. Do everything in your power to maintain emotional wealth. Refuse to be a victim to situation, people and things.
Resource E-Book: "Understanding Your Child's Emotional Language"
3. Practice Gratitude in the Home
Say "Thank You" to your child every time they add value to you and others. Pay more attention only to the behaviors you would like to see your child duplicate. Give less attention or no attention to the behaviors that pushes your button.
Resource E-Book: "Effective Communication Skills for Parents"
4. Volunteer With Your Child
Volunteering is the quickest way for adding value to your child. Preparing meals for the poor, caring for seniors, collected food and clothing for the homeless are opportunities awaiting your family so as to raise your emotional frequency.
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